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How To Approach Tall Girls

Our story begins, as it always does, with a woman.

She was sitting at the bar, sipping her drink. Sexy, blonde, with bangs that covered  her forehead and a cute button-nose, looking sleek and bored in a black form-fitting dress. And alone. All 6 foot something of her. Perfect.

I walked over, leaned against the bar, and ordered a drink. Then I turned to her.

“Hi, I’m Rami,” I said, using the world’s best opening line.

“I’m Tina,” she replied with a smile.

“You’re very cute, Tina,” I said, gazing into her in the eyes. “Too bad you aren’t taller.”

She paused, looking at me in disbelief. I smirked at her with a wink, and she pulled herself up to her full height. Definitely 6 foot something. Probably 1 or 2.

“Well I’m already way taller than you, short legs,” she said, putting her arms on her hips and trying very hard to loom over me.

“Short legs?!” I looked down at my feet. “You know, I’ve always said one’s legs are long enough, as long as they reach the ground.”

This time I got a big laugh. Why wouldn’t I, when I used a line from Thundercats?

Walking Tall

My name is Rami. I’m 5’8, and weight about 160lbs. And I have a confession to make: I love tall women.

I think they are damn sexy, especially if they’re taller than me. Add that to my list of strange fetishes, alongside the Pepto Bismol one.

However, as it turns out, a lot of men can’t handle the fact that a woman is taller than them. Apparently, it’s only okay if the heels come off and she’s their height or shorter.

In fact, chatting with a tall female friend of mine, I’ve discovered that she feels her height is a problem in her dating life. She’s ok with being taller than her boyfriend, but lots of boys aren’t. And it takes two to tango, baby.

The thing is, she’s not that tall. She’s only 6 foot nothing, but apparently that’s enough to mess everything up.

However, there is, as always, a silver lining to the problem. In her case, her height screens away the short guys that have low self-esteem. Anytime she’s approached by a man shorter than she is, she knows he’s got confidence in spades. The men she’s dated in the past were all secure and confident in themselves, so that they never felt awkward walking down the street with a taller woman on their arm.

It’s why she’s so in love with her current boyfriend, a 5’8 badass of a man.

Well folks, having dated and hooked up with many a tall(er) woman, I’m here to tell you two important things about my favorite long-legged beauties.

A Tall Order

Here’s a cool secret about tall women: they get approached by less men than your average girl. As such, if you’re a geek with brass balls, you’ve got a definite edge. Don’t ever be worried about approaching an Amazon. Even if she’s not into you, she’ll appreciate the attention.

Now, the sad thing is, most tall girls I’ve met have a slight self-esteem issue because of their height.They feel like freaks, and most dating advice websites will tell you to “never mention a tall girl’s height”.

Well, that’s a crock of shit. If you don’t bring it up, she’ll constantly be wondering if she’s too tall, and you’ll be thinking “tall girls are hot” the whole time.

Instead, address it immediately by doing two things:

First, tell her you find her attractive. That’s an easy one. Any compliment will do, as long as it’s not about her height.

Second, let her know her height works for you. Don’t harp on it, or constantly tell her how tall she is, or ask her if she’s part of a woman’s basketball team. Just mention it once. In my case, I always make a joke about her being kinda short for my taste, like I did with Tina. Ice broken, issue laid to rest, let’s move on into getting to know each other. Be careful though: don’t make the joke mean, or it’ll backfire and you’ll have angered the Amazon. Which, to be fair, is still kinda hot.

Once you’ve gotten over the initial approach, and addressed these two points, she’s just like any other girl. Good luck fellow geek!

Tall Tales

I asked a friend of mine why he’s not into tall girls.

“Dude, it’s obvious. My dick isn’t big enough.”

Whoa. Ok, let’s set one thing straight here: a woman’s height DOES NOT affect the size of her vagina.

I can’t stress enough how ludicrous my friend’s assumption is. All of the tall women I’ve been with had totally normal sized happy places.

If you really want to know the factors that affect a vagina’s size, here they are: genetics, arousal, age, muscle control (kegels!), and the sexual position. The fact is, if you’re with a woman who’s particularly wide or long down there, it has nothing to do with her height.

Also, protip: doing it missionary style with her legs on your shoulders will constrict both the length and width of her vagina. You’re welcome.

So what do you geeks think? Are you also into tall women? And ladygeeks, do you agree with my protips?

For more tips like this post, check out The Geek’s Guide to Getting the Girl.

84 comments add your comment

    • Thanks Sandy! You’re pretty tall yourself, would you give a short but dashingly handsome geek a chance if you were single?

    • In highschool my boyfriends were always shorter than me. I’ve dated all across the height chart, so yeah, if I was a single woman again I’d totally date a shorter man. My husband is shorter than me when I wear nice heels and he doesn’t seem to mind one bit. I don’t mind being taller than people I’m near, cause I’m busy just being fabulous. Tall is a part of it. 😉

  2. Ahh Rami – Your posts always make me laugh! My tummy aches from laughing at some of the lines and your friends assumption, wow! It’s sad that there are still so many people misinformed and ill educated about human sexuality! (A class I am currently taking btw, very interesting!)

    I have no qualms about dating a shorter guy. I am taller then my BF every time I put my shoes on, but we are closer in height with shoes off. I have gone out on dates with much shorter guys where shoes were not a factor (I was always taller). I think it does speak to someones confidence who they are comfortable being with.

    And you didn’t speak to the fact that most guys still believe that men naturally should be taller then their ladies because that is how its been traditionally. Of course I say we need to kick traditions ass on this and many other factors!

    Keep paving the way!
    <3 Emily Rose

    • It’s absolutely a confidence thing! A real man shouldn’t be bothered by the height of his mate. Screw tradition as well!

      I love the fact that you were taller than your previous boyfriends and it didn’t bother you or them.

  3. I like this post. I agree that confidence is the most important factor. And telling a girl you find her attractive is key – otherwise she’ll be wondering why you’re talking to her.

    As for vagina tightness – in my experience, not related to the size of the girl. Life is funny like that ;).

    By the way; I’ve been with my fair share of taller girls (I’m only 174 cm tall). They all preferred taller men (as most girls do). Many cracked jokes about my height – even when we were in the bedroom :). In my case, disregarding the whole issue or approaching it with humour has worked best.

    • Nice approach to the tall jokes! Nothing conveys confidence like humor.

      And I always make sure to tell a woman when I find her attractive, or at least convey interest in some way. No sense in beating around the bush, she knows why you approached her, might as well be honest about it.

  4. This is a great post! Totally accurate about the whole confidence thing. Being 6’0 I’m always very impressed when shorter guys hit on me. I’ve dated guys of all heights and the shorter guys are the best (the tall guys are the jerks because they think all the girls want them). My current boyfriend is 5’6 and got me with persistence, determination and his humor 🙂 And I couldn’t be happier.

    However! I don’t recommend asking a tall girl if she plays basketball (or volleyball). Making that assumption that a tall girl is athletic makes you look like an ignorant douche, even if you’re trying to be cute. This is coming from personal experience though, because when I played basketball as a teenager I was uncoordinated and terrible, so just mentioning it brings up all that old insecurity. I’ve learned to deal with it mainly by asking the guy something equally ignorant and random. If I’m feeling particularly feisty (or defensive maybe), I’ll make sure to mention your messed up teeth, your weird shoes, or the fact you’re balding, even though I have absolutely no problem with any of those things!
    Hey, it’s tough out there! 😉

    • And there you have it folks, straight from the tall girl’s mouth: she digs confident shorter men.

      I’ve never assumed a tall girl was athletic, so it didn’t even occur to me to mention it in the article. Thanks for bringing it up!
      Hopefully you’ll save a lot of shorter guys the embarrassment of getting called out on their pasty skin, for assuming she plays a tall sport 😀

    • Oh god…….. being asked if I like or play basketball/netball/volleyball/any sport which involved being taller. SO OVER IT. Now someone saying ‘you should be a model’ because of the height, that could work. But only other girls said that to me lol.

  5. Nice post. I like the ice breakers.

    I’m a 5’6 guy. I’ve always found a bit of humour directed at myself to make her laugh is a decent way to get things going. I’m not undermining myself though. 9 times out of 10, this works for women of all heights, not just the tall ladies. Sometimes it depends on her mood too. She just might not be up for a joke so timing can be a factor.

    BTW, I love tall ladies and have no issues dating a woman who’s 6 feet or more. They are rare and beautiful. I won’t hesitate to introduce myself to a taller woman who returns my smile with her own invitation! If she approaches me first, even better! Right off the bat I know she’s got no issues with my height and has the confidence to talk to a shorter guy. Or, she just might be attracted to me, simply stated!!

    I learned many years ago that it’s foolish to let something ridiculous as height get in the way of enjoying a person and sharing happy times with them. I appreciate the tall ladies who have done the same and openly date short guys like me.

  6. i’m 6’2 male dating a 6′ girl … when she wears her platform highest heels when we go out shes like 6’4 ish … and i wear my shoes and i’m like 6’3.5ish, idk i think it bothers me a little … i ask her to wear normal heels so shes at least a tiny bit shorter… she doesn’t mind of course, she can’t really walk or dance in ginormous heels, so she’s good w it

  7. Hmmmm…. yes and no. *prepare for a mini-essay LOL*
    It took me literally YEARS before I’d even consider dating a guy shorter than me…. I just thought it was…weird….. I thought other people would think it weird too…
    And yes, I do have issues with me being tall.. too tall… it has hindered things that could have happened… still does…
    It didn’t help that almost every geek(oh, also a girl geek lol) I’d met was shorter than me. Rarely were there even any matching my height…(I’m 184cm…just shy of 6’1) It was kinda discouraging… doesn’t help that I’m particularly dense when guys do attempt to hit on me lol. And it has alllllllways been shorter ones. Not once has a taller…oh, I take that back, ONCE has a guy my height/little taller hit on me lol. The rest of the time… shorter… It was only after developing a taste for oriental guys though. And finding ones taller than me is even more of a challenge… so it kinda made me accept shorter guys… even though the majority of the asian guys probably wouldn’t think twice about dating a girl that much taller than them. I’m just like a gimic in China lol, the tall blonde girl, they like to admire, but rarely will anyone try anything lol.
    So yeah… I’m totally prepared to accept shorter guys, hell, I kinda already have… it’s just a case of them being brave enough to make a move lol. (You are very right about the confidence thing)

  8. Im 22. Found out I’m 5’11 not 6ft 😉
    But i would not date a guy shorter than me. I just find it .awkward
    Im still hoping a strapping 6 ft 4 man would find his way to me. But shorter guys have better personalities. Hopefully, n time i get over my little insecurity

    • I have a feeling you’re going to do just fine. Don’t count out the shorter guys, if they have the stones to ask you out, they may just surprise you 😀

  9. I’m a tall female and men always insult my height. They say I’m too tall or that my height resembles a man. Therefore, I think men are chickens when it comes to approaching a tall girl they are interested in. This is only my opinion. I think its nice what you stated. But, this isn’t my reality. I have some tall guys compliment my height, yet they date shorter girls. Then I have some shorter guys compliment my height and they still date shorter girls. Either way its not a win-win situation 🙁

    • I know a lot of guys that are into tall girls, and so I wrote this article to help them.

      It hurts me when I see that you are beginning to see your height as a negative thing. Listen, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a tall woman.
      Not a single thing.

      A tall woman is sexy, typically seen as an amazon, and many men are intimidated by it. Don’t worry about them, because they’re just not strong enough to handle your height. The time will come when a guy will look at you, and have the balls to open his mouth and tell you he wants you. If that doesn’t happen, you may need to drop more hints that YOU’RE interested.

      More often than not, if you give a guy enough signals, even though most of us are oblivious, we will get it eventually. And worst case, you can always show this link to a guy you’re interested in, he’ll probably take the hint 😀

      P.S. If you need more advice or just want to talk about it, feel free to email me using the contact page.

    • Hi like Rami, I m 5/8 or 7 and have been more inclined to date taller women. I do feel comfortable with a woman that s taller so I find that special. To be honest I ve felt more uneasy with someone shorter so height is important to me.
      Pity you ‘re not round my area lol

  10. Hi , I’m six foot two and im not all that uhm skinny. I radnomly look up stuff online about height, well, since im obviously tall. I’m only 17 and it gets a bit annoying when you constantly hear how your height is a down falll. I dont think guys understand that its just as awkward for the emale to be taller than it is the guy to be shorter. Im aging being the femal epart and bending over to kiss! That isnt the typical idea. I’m not typical and this article made me smile, which doesnt happen often. Thank you . Keep being a geek and diggin those tall girls!

    • Mary, I really appreciate your comment. You’re 17, and at that age, most guys just aren’t confident enough to approach tall women.
      Soon, you’ll meet guys that are old enough to have the balls to say they’re into you.

      In the meantime, keep smiling, and don’t believe anyone who says you’re too tall. It’s a lie: they’re just not big enough inside to handle it.

    • Hi Mary,

      I know rami gave you a good response but as a guy who’s around your age (pardon the sound of music reference but 17 goin’ on 18) I just wanted to give you another perpective. Personally I think tall girls are hot but I wouldn’t try and flirt with one because I’m afraid of being blown off, after reading rami’s article I’m definitely gonna man up and approach a taller girl, and don’t worry you’ll meet someone

  11. Hi, I am 5″11 nd so not confident about my height..am always the tallest girl @ any place or event. I love heels but I do not have the courage to wear them.during my graduation, I had some high heels on and some guys called me the giraffe..:(

    • I’m 5’10” and recently walked through the University gymnasium when the Women’s Volleyball team was assembled in the lobby prior to a game. I have never felt so short in my life! Or out of shape, but that’s a completely different story! If you love to wear heels (I don’t), go for it. Giraffes are just as beautiful as a pygmy goat! 🙂

  12. I’m 5 foot 8″ and I love tall women. I find them very appealing and sexy and dream about finding 1 for my future companion. My name is Trey Glasco on Facebook if any tall women are interested:)

    • hi there I’m a 5’10 tall girl and I must say i love being tall!!! haha but it wasn’t always this way. infact I use to be very insecure even though I acted the complete oppsit…I always thought to myself well if I’m gonna be tall might as well rock it like a model. so I tried my best to walk, dress and act like a model- though in a modest way, not self centered way while on the inside wishing I was shorter. But interestingly the people around me completely changed my ideas of how it sucks being tall, like people would randomly tell me how gorgeous I am and ask me if I was a model. My moms friends would always go on about how gorgeously tall I am and how I should do modelling and ofcourse I thought yeah right if only you knew what I’m going through and how it gets sucky being so tall. but next thing I knew short guys started hiting on me…guys take it from a tall giril, even if they’re not interested it is super flattering being hit on my a short guy, it just shows how non-shallow you are to look past the looks. I must admit though I am currently not very comfortable with the idea of dating a shorter guy, I don’t know why ey its just makes me feel so out of place and I’m not even shallow. but I’m really trying to work on it, even though its not easy at all…but at the end of the day I just want the guy God has set apart for me and I really pray-no seriously I do pray- that he is taller but only if it’s Gods will, if not then who am I to resist His will? please give me advice anyone? how does one warm up to the idea of dating a shorter guy???

    • Okay, so, I am at the right height for my age. I am much like my dad. My dad was also my height at my age. – Not to tall either, kinda short. Just like me. – Same transform in hair, and hair colour (I didn’t misspell colour ). I meat this beautiful girl last year, I didn’t start talking to her, she started to talk to me. We were the only ones in the room. She is much taller than I am. I really don’t have too much confidence to talk to her that much, but I want to start getting that confidence. I really like her, she is really just wow, beautiful, I love her personality, etc. I do feel that I am short for my age, but I must remember, I am like my dad. He began growing and became nice and tall at 18 or so. Height is not what makes a person, a person is flesh. We all are sinners and feel many of the same emotions – Some handle these emotions better than we do. – I am Christian, and love God Almighty and believe in His Son, Jesus Christ, our Lord and Saviour, and that He is the Messiah. I am in South Africa at the moment, and I am English, not Afrikaans. The girl I like is Afrikaans and English, I do not know if she is also Christian though. If God wills me to be with her (As much as I want to be with her, meaning I want to get to know her more and become good friends, and maybe become more than friends) then I will be with her. I seem to be shy at the moment, since I feel short or so (Nothing to do with how I look on the outside). We were both writing/doing our exams the same day, at the same time when she talked to me (Before the exams). She was doing the final ICDL exam, and I was doing some other one based on presentation (Microsoft Powerpoint). I really just felt like I loved her. I never thought I was going to meet her again as I walked out the doors (It was the first time I meet her). After the year’s end holiday I went back to the computer lessons to find that after my lesson she walked through the doors. I was really just stunned… I didn’t know what to do, was needing a haircut first of all (Haha). She loves dogs (I think). She was loving the dog and I thought she asked me something, so I turned my head towards her with a ‘mm?’ noise, and she turned and looked at me. I looked into her beautiful eyes (I was really looking into her eyes) and she kept her head at me, looking into my eyes and quickly showed me who she was calling with her eyes, but very quickly, and looked back, and then I looked away after saying, ‘Oh okay’ lightly. Then my brother and I went into the room after our lesson. We read our books while we waited for our mom to come fetch us. When we went out, she only said bye to me (Since I was the only one in the room) and I said bye back, a little bit shy. I’m still wanting the week to hurry so that I may see her again 😉 I don’t know if she likes me, but one thing I can tell you is, I really like her 😛 I felt like we had a connection, but I don’t know for sure. I think I will try say something to her the next time I meet her (Which will be soon, this Tuesday). Think of it this way, if you really like the guy who is shorter than you, I am sure your view would change and you would think differently. He is a human being (his body is just flesh), don’t look at his height, but look at his personality. If God Almighty wants you to be with a man that ends up being shorter than you, you will fall in-love with that man. Stay out of trouble! – Sorry for this late reply, I just read the date after typing this message. Too long to cancel 😉 – Regards, Kyle.

    • Also another note: I feel this way and think this way. The way I typed this text out made it seem as if we have something going on. I’ll just be polite to her and maybe chat with her a bit 😉 Never know what might happen in life ;P

  13. it’s very common in my area. possibly because Austin Texas is a weird city. maybe a short guy is fun to ride you just don’t want your friends to see you on one. like fat girls and mopeds?

  14. This post really boosted my confidence, thank you so much for writing it. Pretty much all the things you said were true.

    I’m chasing after a 5’10 1/2 (179 cm) girl, I’m 5’9 (175cm) myself. I’m attracted to her personality and looks, and the height only adds to the appeal. She’s an independent woman I’ve recently gotten to know well and we often have amazing time together. Fuck the generic media height “preferences”, it’s the combination of all the good things – positive and negative – that counts. Hopefully some day we’ll move to the next big step!

    • I read your article, being 6’2 myself, I find that much like most other tall women, I too have had the same luck with shorter men. You make good points and touch on some very important myths. I personally do not mind if a man is shorter as long as hes intellectually stimulating. That is way sexier than a tall empty shell who relys on solely his looks to lure women in.

  15. thats my story too mary..am 17 too 6 ft tall and find it hard coping up with short friends…we can be@best friends forever since we have lots of things in common

  16. I know I am late to the party, but I wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed this. While I am a “mere” 5’10”, I have trouble with shorter men as well. They often claim their height is 5’10”, yet when standing face to face barefoot or with similar height shoes on (heels? yeah, right!) I am inevitably staring at their forehead or bald spot. Do I object to dating shorter men? No, not at all. I merely object to them lying about their height or insisting that I am lying about mine because I “must be” at least 6′ tall. Whatever… but thanks for sharing your tale. Hopefully more men will gain that needed self-esteem to approach even the shortest of us tall women. 🙂

    • I just dated a tall girl a week ago, being separated for years, it was first time i hold a woman close to my chest, i am truly 6 feet even, she said she was 5-10, but when she removed her heel, we are even, we made love, but the whole time i was so worreid about my part, her height, my size, i thought we had good time, we kissed each other for long time after our sex… i thought we had wonderful time, but so far, she found tones of execuse not seening me… who said height isn’t matter?

  17. I got “dumped” after 5 weeks together last night because of a height issue. We’re both 5’7 and I honestly haven’t even felt like there was a problem but unfortunately he did. Kinda made all the other stuff about me being perfect in every way but height sound all the more untruthful. Do guys ever grow up and start not seeing height as a problem or can I expect never to hear from him again?!

    • Just forget about him then. I’m only 15, 5’10 and the guys have been shorter than me my whole life. Lots of shorter guys like me and go out with me, but I feel bad because people like to make fun of us.

  18. And… Model comments are awesome but I think to be a healthy looking tall girl you shouldn’t have a jean size lower then 8 cuz no one wants to be a twig. And did youkn ow that size 8 and up qualify as plus size. No thanks. I wish I were taller! (:

  19. I currently have a boyfriend who’s 5’8-ish(172cm I think), I’m 6’1 or 186cm. We’ve been together nearly 2 years, and height isn’t a big deal. I was his first taller gf and he was my first shorter bf. But… it doesn’t matter. And if we do ever break up, it wouldn’t be because of height, that’s for sure 🙂

    Short guys can be awesome too. Tall guys tend to only want shorter girls. So screw em. (Most of em anyway.) And I’m not about to jump ship if a taller guy came along. Unless David Tennant wanted to whisk me away XD

    • I have quite a few (guy) friends that are over 6ft, and just about all of them like shorter girls. I’m 6’7″ and honestly, I don’t discriminate! I’ve never been able to find a taller girl, but have always been intrigued… Something about the thought of having a long, sexy pair of legs wrapped around me, that revs my engine! 🙂

  20. I am 6′ and it’s the opposite sex is awesome with me it’s just I can’t do the 69 thing that’s it!

  21. Mind helping a fellow short geek out? I’m 5’5″ and she’s an unbelievably beautiful woman who’s also 6’1″. We talk, have a common ground in our taste of music and we’re in the same class that meets 2 days a week. We’re in a study group of 3 that meets up for lunch before the class. So far, we already have each other’s numbers and flirt with each other. How can I escalate this relationship to a couple? I’m not at all insecure or intimidated by her height or mine. Another plus is that she’s constantly saying I’m so smart from the little bit of time knowing each other (literally 6 hours of class= 3 classes). So please, I really wasn’t successful back in high school with the taller douchebags taking all the girls my height (and me being a tad bit shy), so I really don’t know how to take it to the next level. Please get back to me before next Tuesday! Thanks for this extremely helpful post!

    • Hi Ryan,

      That’s a fairly easy one. If she’s showing interest, and flirting, there shouldn’t be much that you need to do. You just mainly need to know her basic likes and dislikes. Also, it doesn’t hurt to ask if she is currently seeing anyone.

      Does she ask what you’re doing for the weekend? That may be her showing sings that she wants you to ask her out.

      If you both have similar interests in music, and there is a show coming up that you both would like, just tell her that you were thinking about going. If she responds with “I want to go!” or “I’m so jealous…”, then that’s your in. Just say, “would you like to go with me?”. Boom. Date! Then, once set up, depending on the time of the show, ask her out to dinner before. Or, if time doesn’t permit (long show), take her out to midnight breakfast after. I’ve done this many times, and it gives you time to talk, but also the late hour allows for a more open and relaxed conversation. The more comfortable she is around you, the quicker you’ll start to see all of the blatant signs of attraction. This would also be the best time to let her know how you feel about her. Just say something along the lines of, “I have to tell you something… I like you a lot”. You want to put your feelings out there early. This does a few things. It lets her know that you’re interested in dating her, not just being friends, but also, if she’s not interested in dating you, it will keep you from investing a lot of time, money, and feelings, into something that never was. … But, if she blushes, smiles, and says that she likes you too, then ask her if she would like to go on a date sometime. This gives a notion that you weren’t viewing this first outing as a date, but more like 2 friends getting to know each other more.

      As long as you have the brains to try to understand women, and enough confidence to actually follow through with asking them out, then you’re 95% of the way there. The other 5% is just knowing when to shut your mouth and let her either think, or talk. Seeing that, comes with time, experience, and patience.

  22. Wow. I don’t know who you are StephenP, but that was good advice. Thanks so much for contributing!

    Does that cover what you need, Ryan?

    • Well, it does and it doesn’t. There’s a bit of a grey area with me. I’ve been out of the game for about 5 years, and since my last girlfriend cheated on me I haven’t had the incentive to even talk to other girls up until now. Deep in my heart I just couldn’t trust anyone enough for a relationship. But since she got me to open up and talk (stepped way out of my comfort zone), I cant help but feel “in love” for her. I realize it’s way too early to have this level of attraction for her, but I’m afraid I’ll rush things and screw it up by making it seem like I’m desperate to get her. I haven’t told her she’s gorgeous or even mentioned that I’m completely secure with her height. I feel like I’ve already rushed a bit by texting a little with her last night (even though it was about a restaurant that is close to the school and the text conversation kinda ended with “you ought to check this place out sometime”. Honestly, I have no idea what to do… I’m afraid that I’m already heading towards the dreaded “friend zone”, and it’s tearing at my mind and heart thinking about this. How can I fix this (if I’ve already screwed up a little)? Or can I just come clean and flat out tell her how I feel?

    • Ok, here’s the deal. You may already be in the friend zone, and it may already be too late. You don’t know for sure.

      What you need to do, is invite her out to something one on one, and have fun with her. See how it goes, touch her a bit so she gets a vibe for how you are physically. Have FUN.

      At the end of that, tell her you had a great time. Then invite her on a date. And make sure she knows it’s a date, be explicit.

      By that point, you will have laid it all out there, without saying “I LOVE YOU AND WANNA HAVE YOUR BABIES”. She’ll know, and she’ll tell you if she’s not down with it.

      Remember, there’s no magic or tricks here. You can’t cast a spell to make her want you. You can just be your best self, have fun, and see what happens. If she’s not into you, it’s ok! There will be more tall women 🙂

  23. Great article.

    I am about 5’8″ and have been dating taller girls for a while now. My girlfriend is taller than me, my ex about same height and the one before that was taller.

    It actually does all boil down to confidence. If you can overcome the anxiety of initial contact, most taller women will be intrigued or flattered that you would find the confidence to approach them. It’s actually become easier for me to flirt with taller women simply because I have no issues about my height. You can even launch into some light self deprecating humour on the subject which might very well get her laughing, which is always good. Balance it out with some slight teasing or funny questions and you might find yourself surprised, just don’t let it become the focal point of your discussion, also don’t be a creep. Fuck creeps.

    If all goes well you might find that she has never been with or considered being with a shorter man, but very few in my experience let that prevent them from going forward. Taller dudes (all of my friends) might be able to coast along on that fact alone, and shorter women relative to them do generally find height attractive, but I assure you that the confidence you project as a shorter man approaching a taller women is something they will never have.

    I’m no seduction champ or player but I never have much trouble, good luck to all you guys and girls.

    • What a fantastic comment! Thanks so much for sharing man. I’m about 5’8″ as well, and a lot of geeks have trouble believing they have what it takes to attract a woman who’s taller than them.

      People like you are just more proof that it’s totally doable. Keep it up, and keep showing other guys the way.

  24. Thank you for this.. I’m 5’8″ female and I never noticed height really on others or myself until in recent years somebody told me that I was too tall…I became insecure about it. I have never had a problem in the dating scene but just that one comment that I am too tall really made me realize that I am a tall girl, and maybe it’s unattractive! I don’t know why but just It knocked my confidence hard, maybe because I had come to terms with my other insecurities over time but never considered my height or others heights…now my height is often in my mind, hindering my self esteem.
    I have never, ever cared if a guy is shorter than me or taller, I am really attracted to a great sense of humor and confidence. Short guys…confidence is so attractive as is being able to laugh easily.
    This article made me feel better about being a tall woman. Thanks again for the article..

    • Jessica, you’re very welcome! I’m glad to hear that this post helped. You should never feel awkward because of your height. It’s one of many things that makes you special and unique.

      And thanks for mentioning that you don’t care if a guy is shorter than you. Hopefully that will inspire short men who read this post to get out there and ask a taller woman out 😀

  25. Hi, thanks for this post! I’m a tall girl currently crushing on a short guy. He seems confident, though, so hopefully the height differential won’t be an issue. He is SUPER sweet and SUPER smart and is interested in interesting things…I am these things too, if I do say so myself…When you are unusual in internal ways, you tend not to let the ways you are unusual externally be determining factors…so short men, don’t deprive tall girls of your wonderful selves!!

    • Hi Annabel, thank you for the comment! Good luck with your shorter crush, I’m sure he’ll come around if you let him know you’re interested.

  26. I freakin’ love the tall girls who don’t have small issues or the insane need to feel petite. It’s totally hot to see a tall girl loving herself and loving the shorter guys who love her! Femininity has nothing to do with how tall or short a woman is in my books but moreso how she carries herself.

    The diamonds in the rough are the tall girls who do their best to get a shorter guy’s attention and show him that she’s interested without fear. It’s still kinda rare to meet this type of special lady though. Tons of women that are 5’10 and well over 6 feet behave like every other woman who’s preoccupied with the need to be with a taller guy to look good in high heels or to keep up with social traditions. Most are way too concerned with having bigger feet than her man, bigger parts or him not being big enough below the waist where it counts hahaha!

    One thing is for sure is that it’s an amazing feeling as a short guy to date a taller woman who loves and embraces being the bigger spoon. Tall chicks rock when they stand proud, stand out like they naturally do and not give a shit about what everyone else thinks.

    • Shmuzzy, you’ve got it all figured out. Good luck bro, I hope you meet a tall woman who’s just right for you.

  27. Just found your site and I am glad I did. I absolutely adore very tall women, they are just so girly and feminine in my eyes (I’m 5’2″ on a good day 🙂 ). I am just getting back into the dating scene (widower ed 3 1/2 years to a kind sweet woman) and I just cannot keep my eyes and my heart off tall ladies, their height is so pretty, unbelievably pretty. I know I have a tough row to hoe liking the tall pretty flowers when you’re a shorty but this site has been a real blessing. Liked your sense of humor. I never knew tall women have been insulted with similar but opposite remarks about their height just like I’ve sometimes heard. Who would want to make tall angels feel unattractive. That is not right.

  28. This blog made me think of my early 20’s, as I was rejected by the foxes who chased after the Alfa males and showed no more interest in me than glancing at a blade of grass next to the highway traveling at 75 MPH. And this made me think about my own personal experiences with tall women, a slightly different story from this blog, but same result due to being a Beta male.

    One 6’ tall girl, in a gym, talked to me with such a look of disinterested she couldn’t have looked or acted more uninterested if she had wanted to. I approached another, who I estimated being 5 foot 9 or 10 inches. She got angry with me for even asking her out and stuck her finger in my face informing me she didn’t date shorter men. On line, I met a girl 5’11”, and we worked out together once in my apartment complex gym, after that she did not return my two phone calls, there could be others, too, I just don’t remember them all. Now, you may say the rejections were because of my looks, that could be true, but as I approached girls closer to my height, my success rate went way up.

    This blog also made me think about the rejections by tall girls, and it angered me, but not at the time the rejection. Only years later, when I actually tallied them up, did I get angry. I was rejected not because I was fat, bald, ugly, deformed or had a rotten personality. No. The reason I was rejected by all of these women was my height. Not a one even bothered to put forth the effort to get to know me much less date me.

    I did date three women who were significantly taller than me, two at 5’11” and one at 5’10”. (I am 5’8”) And all three happened to be 32 years of age, which is more than a coincidence and a tie in with this blog. No doubt all three wanted a tall Alfa male, and lost, so a safe stable Beta male was the next best thing in their 30’s, for I certainly didn’t grow any taller and I doubt I got better looking. These women were past their prime and worried. I was in my late 30’s, at this time of my life, after being married for 10 years. It was also at this time, I could easily date younger women, and I did. When I was 38, my first girlfriend was 27, the next was 27 and the next was 24 who became my second wife. I never dated with any intent of marrying a woman my age. Younger women had no issue with me dating them, and I certainly had no issue dating them. I remember going to singles events and seeing very pretty women, who were my age, who I know 15 years earlier would not have given me the time of day. And even now, they may have looked better than myself, but now it was me who had no interest in approaching them. I did not want to take time and money away from pursuing younger women. Why go old, when I could go young? I was amazed how the dating game changed in my favor. And I used it to my advantage, just as women had done years earlier.

    I am now married and have 4 sons. I have 3 degrees, and I have co-authored 2 US patents. I could have provided a good life to any girl. I wanted a taller girl because of the physical turn on and to for fill one of my desires, yet not one single tall girl (in her 20’s) gave me a chance. I was turned down consistently and without a second thought. (Maybe due to the Alfa male fascination) So, if you find yourself in your late 20’s or early 30’s with no prospect of a husband or children in the immediate future, you have no one to blame but yourself. There were men like me, who wanted a leggy female, but they, like me, were never accorded the opportunity. (This also applies to average height women, too) And the reality is that the vast majority of tall women will not even consider a shorter man (and Beta males) until it is too late. You would think it would be obvious that if you included shorter males (and Beta males) in your suitor selection, your odds would increase of finding a mate. There are a lot more short and medium height males than there are taller ones. So my advice would be to accept the advances of all men and get to know them. I, who would have relished the opportunity of having curvy broad hips and a tapered waist to hold all night and to make love to into the early hours of the morning, was never, not once, even given a chance to start a relationship. Throw away the yardstick, for you may find someone like me, who would love to share his life and love with a tall girl.

    By the way, another tie in with this article and be found at this web site.
    http://shortguycentral.com/P-57/beware-of-the-reformed-heightist-woman

    This writer tell about his rejections in his 20’s by women only to find that women now chased after him, in spite of his height, now he is in his early 30’s. He warns of the dangers of the “Reformed Heightest Woman” who are desperate after wasting their life chasing the Alfa male and now want a stable Beta with a steady pay-check.

    Here is anther on how women who found the Mr. Average (Beta Males) were worth nothing in their 20’s and now that these women are in their 30’s can’t buy a date, even from the Beta Males

    Why women lose in the dating game
    http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life/why-women-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html
    During their 20s, women compete for the most highly desirable men, the Mr Bigs. Many will readily share a bed with the sporty, attractive, confident men, while ordinary men miss out. As Whiskey puts it at whiskeysplace.wordpress.com: ”Joe Average Beta Male is about as desirable to women as a cold bowl of oatmeal.”

    ”I can’t believe how many men my age are only interested in younger women,” wails Gail, a 34-year-old advertising executive as she describes her first search through men’s profiles on the RSVP internet dating site. She is shocked to find many mid-30s men have set up their profiles to refuse mail from women their own age.

    Talking to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready. American journalist Kate Bolick wrote recently in The Atlantic about breaking off her three-year relationship with a man she described as ”intelligent, good-looking, loyal and kind”. She acknowledged ”there was no good reason to end things”, yet, at the time, she was convinced something was missing in the relationship. That was 11 years ago. She’s is now 39 and facing grim choices.

  29. I was shown this blog and since as a 5’3″ male all women I come in contact with are taller and in most cases tower over me.
    I was blessed with very good looks, however cursed with shortness. I have had and have may very tall female friends and one thing for the most part they always seem to complain about is that they feel so intimidated to wear hi heels.
    When I indicate like how can you as a beautiful tall woman feel the way you do they really don’t have a good answer and I’ll say stand up. They usually get the point.

  30. i am a tall 6’2″ good looking male with a serious attraction to beautiful women who are taller then myself and will consider a beautiful woman who is 6′ however she must wear hi heels. I have found very tall
    beautiful women are either needy or obnoxious. For many years I was with a beautiful woman who was 6’6″ loved her heels and embraced our relationship and the fact I was a tall guy she was just taller,
    unfortunately she was killed in an automobile accident. C

  31. I was told about this blog and as a goodlooking guy 5’6″ never having a problem with approaching taller women it’s the results that have been somewhat of an issue like rejection after rejection.
    The markets both real estate and financial have been very good to me the past 9 years and with my new found wealth my height or lack of height no longer seem to
    present the issue it once did. I find now
    very tall beautiful women find me and my shortness and ‘wealth’ to be attractive to them as my present significant other who is 6’2″ and wouldn’t leave the house without her hi heels and doesn’t give our excessive height difference a moments thought, however I do and the looks and remarks are very disgusting.

  32. Found this site just by accident, as my two best girlfriends like myself are very tall over 6’ and we love our heels.
    I have been seeing a very goodlooking guy, however he is maybe 5’8” and when
    we show up together they make it quite apparent how are height difference makes us look ridiculous together and they will mock his short stature with silly comments or jestures, I have asked them to stop and they just can’t understand how my attraction for this short dude can be soo strong. I have expressed numerous times how he really rocks my boat and they should stop the unkind remarks. I would just like if they could be
    a little more supportive of my relationship
    and in all honesty there are times I have found awkwardness, but that doesn’t change my feelings toward him.

    • Hi Sabrina,

      Your friends might be making jokes in good fun, and not really want to be mean. In these situations, they don’t see it as hurtful.

      However, it’s a problem for you, right? You feel they ARE being hurtful and mean.

      So you need to express that to them.

      You need to have them over one day, sit them down, and say this.

      “When you make fun of the fact that my boyfriend is shorter than me, it really hurts my feelings. I love him a lot, and he treats me well, and our relationship is amazing, so when you make fun of his height it makes me feel sad. I really want you guys to be supportive of my relationship.”

      If you don’t express seriously and clearly the fact that they are hurting your feelings, they won’t stop.

  33. Why do you care so much what they think? How are your friends doing in the dating game? Do they have boyfriends? If so, what do they look like? Or are they single, and want you to be single. Read below my stories and show them.

    In an apartment complex that I lived in Houston, there was a loose knit collection of about 10-15 singles. We would meet at the pool on the weekends, and have informal parities. If one person knew of a singles event, they would inform the rest, and whoever wanted could attend. I even dated one of the girls in the group for a short time.

    In the group, was an attractive girl named Heidi. She was a degreed professional in the oil business. And you couldn’t miss her. She was 5’11”, blonde hair, with blue eyes. Typical for a tall girl, she didn’t have much up top, but she have broad curvy hips and an hour glass waist. She, needless to say, she got the attention of single men.

    One Saturday, I was catching rays and drinking beer with some of the other guys at the apartment complex pool, when one man I knew walked up to the group of us. He stated he had proposed to Heidi, and she had turned him down. He approached us in the off chance that someone might know Heidi and put the good word in for him with her. Months later, I was at my section’s pool of the apartment complex. There was a water polo game in progress, one man about 10 feet away me on my left, was playing boom box, and about 10 feet in the other direction were two girls from the group talking about how Heidi had rejected two other men’s marriage proposals. I wasn’t getting all the details of the conversation due to noise at the pool and that fact I didn’t really care, so I don’t know if the two girls were jealous of Heidi getting the attention of these two men, or if these women were mocking these men as losers, due to Heidi rejecting them. But the point here is not only was Heidi getting the attention of single men, but marriage proposals.

    Fast forward 12 years, one child and one divorce later on my part. A friend wanted me to join a dating agency. He would get a bonus if I joined, and I could join at a discount. I said before I join, I wanted to see what the single girls in the agency look like. I was given a binder of women 30-34 years of age. In the binder were pages of women. At the top of the page, in about 1 inch high letters was the girl’s name, then below that a 2″x3″ photo of her and below that 3 or 4 paragraphs that she wrote of herself. I started looking, when I got to page 7 or 8, I noticed the name Heidi. I took a good look, and it was her. I quickly scanned her paragraphs. I remembered a phrase of one sentence, it read, “34 years old, never married, no children.” I thought how could this be? I knew of three men who wanted to marry her, and in the 12 years that had passed there must have been more. How was it possible she never married given all the advantages she had? What dating parameters did she employ that failed her so miserably that resulted in her being a childless spinster given all the physical advantages she had?

    In a social setting, if she were not the most desirable girl, she certainly was one of the more desirable girls. And I am here to tell you Heidi could have had absolutely any man she wanted, and I mean absolutely any man. If a poll had been taken by the single guys in the complex of who would be the childless spinster at the age of 34, I am here to tell you Heidi’s name would not have been at the top of the list. What had she done with her life? How was it possible she never married? Did she think at the age of 34, she would have a bigger and better selection of single males than when she was 24?
    I suspect in her 20’s, she had a male qualification list as long as her inseam, and if a male were lacking any one of these parameters, the guy was rejected. She kept saying no to men, until there were no men to say no, to.

    I also suspect that since all during her early years, she was used to getting plenty of male attention, and assumed her future would be like her past. Why would it change? In her years 17-26, she most likely was the crème de la crème of women. But as she entered her late 20’s, much to her dismay, there were lots of younger girls, many prettier and more approachable, meaning shorter. At 5’11”, she was taller than 99% of the women, 80% of the men and at 28 years of age, older than 90% of both men and women in a single’s bar. She stood out like a sore thumb due to her height and age.
    How her story ends? I don’t know. I didn’t join the dating agency. But it was Heidi’s actions and Heidi’s actions alone that made her single. I bet never in her worse nightmares, did she ever think she would be a childless spinster at the age of 34. She wasted her youth and fertility using extremely flawed dating parameters that she created and imposed on herself and refused to change in spite of years of obvious failure. I can’t say for sure, but I will bet a dollar to a dime, she was a heightist, which made her dating life even harder to forfill.

    Another heightist story
    Albany, NY.
    I was taking a training class in Albany, NY, in the year 2000. A co-worker was looking over a singles web site on a computer during a class break. The site allowed you to read personal ads, but to write, you needed to join the site. I remember seeing a photo of a girl 20, who looked marginal at best, between a 6.5 to 7. We’re not talking about a Kate Upton look-a-like, but rather a plain girl. She was 6’1”. She said in her introduction that it would be hard for you (the reader) to believe that she would most likely be alone this weekend. She claimed to be a wonderful person, fun, outgoing, friendly and intelligent. She stated she was “tall, VERY tall”. And “Shorties need not apply.” How is that for a condescending attitude? I wonder how her life ended up? Did she become another Heidi?

    Sharon-heightist
    Sharon was a 35 year old divorced woman. She was 5’6” and average in looks and weight. She didn’t have any extraordinary physical characteristic that would distinguish her from any other female her age. She didn’t have a beautiful face or big breasts (maybe an A cup). She didn’t have an hour-glass figure or a Kim Kardashian ass. All in all, she was just average. She didn’t have a college degree and had no income generating skills. She was broke and living at her parent’s home with her 2 children from a failed marriage. One day, she is talking to my wife and says this. She will not date a man below 6’ AND he has to have a good income because he has to support her and her 2 children. When I heard this, my reaction was, Sharon is either insane or a delusional narcissist. Did she think that there was a severe shortage of broke women with children and that 6’ plus wealthy men just can’t get enough of them? That somehow a broke, divorced, 35 year old woman, average in looks with two kids was what every 6’ plus successful man wanted.

    Well, surprisingly she did get what she wanted —– sort of. She did get married, at the age of 40, to a man barely an inch taller than herself. I can’t speak of his income, but he is karate instructor, so I doubt he made a 6 figure income that she demanded 5 years earlier.

    What happened to the 6’ height man requirement? It would be interesting to know how many good men she rejected due to their height from the years 35-40? Maybe if she had used a man’s character as a measure him rather than his inseam, she would have found someone sooner or maybe if she used character as the most import factor years earlier, she would have found the right man in the first place, for her ex was 6’4”.

    In all my years of men friends, co-workers and acquaintances, not one time did I ever hear any man ever state he would refuse to date a woman because she was too tall. I can remember guys talking about long legs of certain girls at the beach or at bars. But again, never did any of my friends or acquaintances ever state they would reject a girl due to her height. I can’t say that about women, for I have heard plenty of women state they would not date a man due to his height. This can be easily verified by looking at any personal ads in the newspaper or web sites where women clearly state height requirements, with no exceptions.

    I have traveled the world. I have worked in 20 countries, and I can tell you the number one topic among men is women. And in all my years, I can tell you I never heard any man, anywhere, anytime, ever say he would refuse to date a woman because she was too tall. But as for women, you can go to any dating site, and I say again, any dating site and see height restrictions for men spelled out in no uncertain terms where women clearly state men’s height requirements, with no exceptions.

  34. Came across this blog and it really got my interest with many of the remarks/stories and since i’m considered a goodlooking
    male 6’1” and since high school, college and now in the work place I have always been drawn to tall beautiful women and to be really honest the taller the better.
    I must admit I love looking up at these beautiful women and they rest their arms on my shoulders and when they have to bend at their knees and down and over so our lips can meet while standing and in several cases actually had to kick off their heels to kiss me was and is the all time turn on for me and numerous times they have found it similar. I am presently with a gorgeous woman 6’9” however very seldom will go out in heels, but in the house almost always and she has a special pair for shower sex and if you
    don’t think this an unbelievable turn on you all are nuts.

  35. I was told about your blog by a friend of mine after I told him how conflicted I was regarding a beautiful woman I had met recently since I must admit being very conflicted because she is soo tall. I am not some young kid I was married for like 20 years and been divorced about 4 years
    and I am like 6’2” and this gorgeous woman who is age appropriate is like 6’6” and everything when I am with her is fabulous until we stand up and I am looking up and she is looking down and I
    can’t even begin to explain what goes on with my emotions and she will flat say does it really bother you that much that i’m taller she reads it like i’m an open book and I realize this is ridiculous, this is a drop dead gorgeous woman and what the hell is wrong with me? The other night I picked her up and she wasn’t wearing heels and when I asked, she said
    like really and i let it go as she did.
    As my friend indicated just get your act together.

  36. I’m taller than almost every guy I know besides my father. I’m also lanky, so I’ve been called my fair share of names. I’ve also been told that I look like a lesbian because of my height, a lot, (nothing against it, but it’s not me and really puts me off of people). The correlations make it difficult to put myself out there because I give off a ‘one of the guys, lesbian gamer’ vibe, but I’d be considered cute if I cut seven inches off my height. All the guys I have liked were shorter than me, but it wouldn’t ever happen because all the ones I know are into shorter girls.

  37. Hi Rami
    I m also between 5/7and 8 and have always had a passion for taller women , so much so that I wish I was even shorter so there would be more options.
    That s a real eye opener as I always assumed women prefer a bloke That s taller.
    I have always felt proud to have a taller woman with her arm round me and have actually felt strange if I did meet one That s shorter.
    To me the taller the better

  39. Hi rami… I met a girl online few days ago… She seems to be confident, open minded and lively… In the beginning i didn’t even ask her height she told her height that’s 5.8 by herself… And i said like really she said yeah… At first I told her I’m 4.11 even though I’m 5.6😂 she trolled me that time then i told her my real height… We haven’t met yet and i asked her out and she agreed.. I was just wondering about how will i look in front of her and i was insecure about it… Now that i saw your post it lit the fire 🔥 in me… I’m gonna make her feel comfortable and I’ll be more confident when i meet her… Thanks for the pro tip

  40. While I have been searching the internet for some answers short( pardon the pun) of going into therapy. I am a relatively tall guy 6’2” with more than a serious attraction/obsession for much taller women who tower over me. I was recently in a relationship with a very attractive woman standing 6’8” and when I asked why she didn’t wear heels, her response was aren’t I
    dominating enough to you. I indicated not really and then she further told me that she wanted to be dominated by me, how would that work? What’s your suggestion?

  41. Interesting blog and helped me sort out that because of my attraction for taller women, I
    am not a creep or do I have a fetish. I am
    a tall 6’2” male who simply desires beautiful taller women, who understand they don’t
    have to be short little things to be feminine and in fact I find nothing more feminine and a total turn on when one of these beauties has to bend over and down to hug and kiss me.
    To all you tall women, embrace that gift.

  42. Found this blog very interesting and being a male 6’1” with a serious attraction to a taller woman who seems to revel in the fact she is the taller person in the relationship and many of her actions will just belittle me in public and seems of little concern to her and embellishes this domineering tac knowing of
    my obsession with her beauty, intelligence and height. Very sick situation.

  43. Found your blog while trying to find some answers to my recent inner feelings as a male 6’2” never really giving much thought to women’s height until I recently met this gorgeous woman who flat out towers over me
    and she has told me her height is 6’6” and she is beautifully proportioned, has no problem wearing hi heels which even exaggerates our height difference and while
    her looking down on me isn’t as troubling to
    me as having to strain looking up and not able to even get close to her lips or cheeks without considerable difficulty unless she really leans and bends over and yet in private
    everything else in the relationship is great.

  44. Everything I read indicates you shouldn’t tell your gf or wife like not to wear certain shoes,
    ok, I am like 6’1” and my gorgeous gf is 6’2” and she will wear like 3”or 4” heels, however on occasions will go with like a 6” heel and that’s when I really feel some discomfort with the height difference and she
    thinks i’m being ridiculous and I should not make any comments and let her wear what she feels like wearing ?

  45. Being a tall 6’1” woman in my thirties I will just say it with a fabulous body from working out as I am told with killer legs and yes love my heels and if I didn’t have a career would have nothing since interesting guys of decent height won’t even approach me, it’s only the jerks and their smart ass remarks they think?
    I do have male friends just not any real love interests at this time.

  46. I never really though much about this height thing since being 6’2” until like maybe some six months ago I met this absolutely gorgeous woman who was like 6’6” and even
    with this height difference for the first time in my life I have to admit to some anxiety because of this height difference.
    Several weeks ago we went to a formal function and when I picked her up she was wearing very hi heels and my anxiety level went thru my chest like some kind of knock out blow, she sensed it and immediately removed her shoes and felt bad and honestly I felt like a jerk/fool and you name it I felt like that. Needless to say I am at a loss to my emotions?

  47. Interesting blog as I was trying to find some answers as to why I should apologize or feel
    like I am some weirdo, because as a reasonably tall good looking guy I am attracted/drawn to much taller beautiful women and when I do meet a woman that fits this profile and I am completely upfront with
    my feelings the woman wants no part of any kind of relationship. I must admit on occasions I do see a very tall couple, however I usually see very tall women with men that are way shorter than i am, don’t get it?

  48. I found this an interesting blog and being a male height challenged 5’6” though blessed with good looks, unless the woman is a midget they all are taller or just flat out tower
    over me. I have had a very successful career
    in the financial sector and in my later years,
    height or lack of it doesn’t seem to be the issue it once was. My present significant other age appropriate is as she indicates 5’12” and wouln’t be caught dead without her
    heels and no question shorter guy with money levels our height difference.

  49. Trying to really understand as a reasonably tall guy 6’2” involved with a beautiful woman who is an amazing 6’5” and has no qualms
    because of our height difference wearing heels and it seems wherever we are people have to make remarks, we are not freaks in fact if I say so myself we are a damn good looking couple and yes she’s like a head taller
    and if we are good with it, what the hell business is it of these people anyway, just maybe they should take a good look in the mirror and i’ll leave it at that.

  50. Being a reasonably tall man 6’2” and my present
    woman significant other is considerably taller and it seems no matter where we turn up together it seems to always be a topic of conversation and quite frankly I am damn sick
    and tired of hearing like I don’t know she’s taller.
    People it’s not a disease, she’s a very tall beautiful woman and I feel very fortunate that this magnificent beautiful woman is in a relationship with me, get over it, tall guy with taller woman.

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