Who is the GutsyGeek?


Hi there. I’m Rami, and this is my blog, where I teach people like you how to get a girlfriend.

What is this blog?

This is the place where you, as a geek, can learn exactly what you need to do to get a girlfriend.

The ins and outs of meeting women, getting phone numbers, becoming attractive, dating, sex, relationships, these are all topics I cover.

I also talk about videogames and comics, because hey, I’m a geek and proud of it.

My blog is featured as one of the 10 Best Geeky Dating Blogs For Men, according to DatingAdvice.com.

I’ve spoken at major conferences, and I’ve also built a dating course.

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From relationships to dating to finding the one, I’ve been able to help everyone around me with my XP.

And now I want to help you.

If you’re a geek that wants to learn:

  • how to become more attractive
  • how to build up your confidence
  • the best way to get a girl’s number
  • what to do on a date

… all the steps you need to find a girlfriend and have a meaningful relationship

Then you’re in the right place! This blog is made just for you.


I’ve always been a geek. As such, in my younger years, I was terrible with women. I was awkward, and didn’t know what to say, and constantly put my foot in my mouth.

I was the guy who was eternally in the friend zone.

All the women wanted to be my friend, but no one wanted to date me. In fact, in my early twenties, I asked out every woman I knew, and got rejected by all of them.

Over 60 women turned me down.

It’s around that point that I was convinced I was going to die alone. The next three years went by and I didn’t have a single date, or anything even close to intimate with a woman.

Then I got lucky, and somehow stumbled into a relationship with a great girl. But eventually we broke up, and I was alone again. And I asked myself something important:

“What did I do to end up with a great girl?’

Right there and then, I decided enough’s enough. I wasn’t going to be alone anymore. People always said “don’t worry, you’ll meet the right girl eventually, you just need to stop looking.”

But that was bullshit. I waited three years and no one showed up, I wasn’t going to wait another three for the right woman to stumble along and choose me.

I wanted to be able to choose her instead.

So I started to do research, and learn techniques from other people. Dating coaches, hypnotherapists, body language experts, pickup artists, salesmen, you name it.

I spent 5 years going out to clubs and bars 4 nights a week, to learn the ins and outs of meeting women.

And it worked.

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In my 30th year, I met the girl of my dreams.

She was funny, and sexy, and everything I wanted in a woman.

In the past, I would have been too intimidated by her to talk normally. I would have been nervous, and said stupid things, and turned her off.

But that was in the past. I had been training for years, and I was ready for this moment. So we went on a date, and had a blast, and soon after she was my girlfriend.

We’ve been together ever since. That’s her in the picture below giving me a smooch 🙂


At this point, I’m so far away from that guy I used to be, who couldn’t get a date to save his life.

But I still remember the way it felt to be hopeless and rejected.

I want to make sure you don’t have to go through the same pain I did. I’m here to tell you that with the techniques outlined in my course and on this blog, you too can meet someone and be happy.

A Course, you say?

Why yes!

Over the years, I learned and trained myself to be able to walk up to any woman, start a conversation, get her number, and get her on a date.

Then I started to blog about it here, and slowly began to teach others how to do it as well.

I’ve coached thousands of geeks via email, Skype, and 1-on-1 live coaching, and have helped all of them to get a girlfriend. Additionally, millions of people have read this blog since I started it seven years ago.

Eventually, I turned all of my knowledge into a course.

It’s called LEVEL UP YOUR DATING, and you can read about it here.

Change, but stay true to who you are

The important thing to remember is I don’t want to change who you are.

If you’re a geek, you’re already groovy. I’m just going to show you how to present that groove to the world, and get it to dance to your tune.

So let’s get you out there and help you find a girlfriend.

Dating used to be the hardest game of all. But with me by your side?

You’re destined to be victorious.

After all, if I made it, how hard can it be?

The Gutsy Geek